I am not supposing that these assumptions are guidelines for all; however, one must start somewhere:
I will work on the assumption that
(1) those who disagree with me have legitimate reasons even if they are unable to articulate them.
(2) those who disagree with me hold their opinions in good will until further evidence indicates otherwise.
(3) that unless the Church teaches otherwise the Bible means precisely what it says interpreted in accord with the guidance of the Church.
(4) I am not always right.
(5) I have a narrow viewpoint that is not shared by all.
(6) I am not in any position to judge why anyone holds the opinions they do.
(7) the truth is more important than my personal viewpoint or comfort level.
(8) when I am made angry by something, I need to first look within for the source not outside.
(9) I am not the center of the Universe and things are not here for my convenience.
(10) with rights come concomittant responsibilities.
(11) the responsibilities are at least as weighty as the rights.
(12) what I personally dislike need not be made improper, illegal, or unavailable for everyone.
Steven - Excellent guidelines; thanks for presenting them. I think I'll use them as a sort of meditation 'seed' over the next few days.
Thanks, Steven. Awesomely true.
karen marie